What does an End-of-Life Doula do?

An end-of-life doula is a companion and guide for the journey at the end of life. I provide emotional support, a calm presence, and practical help for both the person who is dying and their loved ones. My role is not medical—I do not replace doctors, nurses, or aides—but I walk alongside families to help them feel less alone, more supported, and more prepared.

Is this only for people who are actively dying?

Not at all. While I often support people in their final days or weeks, my work can begin much earlier. Some families reach out when a diagnosis is given, others when hospice care begins, and some when they realize they simply need more support. I can be present at any stage of the end-of-life journey.

How is this different from hospice?

Hospice provides wonderful medical care, but their staff are often stretched thin and have limited time. My role is different: I am not bound by the medical side of things. I can sit quietly for hours, listen deeply, help explain what is happening, and provide comfort in ways hospice may not have the time or space to. I work alongside hospice, never in place of them.

Do you also support the family?

Yes. End-of-life care is not just about the person who is dying—it’s about everyone who loves them. I help family members cope with emotions, understand what’s happening, and find ways to be present with their loved one. I can also give caregivers much-needed breaks, guidance, or simply a listening ear.

Do you come into the home?

Yes. Most of my work is in the home, where people feel safest and most comfortable. I also support families in facilities if their loved one lives in a nursing home, assisted living, or other care setting.

What about legacy or memory work?

Part of my care is helping people reflect on their life and create something meaningful to leave behind—a collection of stories, a letter, a keepsake, or simply shared moments that become memories. Legacy work is deeply personal, and it’s always guided by what feels right for each individual.

How do we get started?

The first step is simply a conversation. We’ll talk about what’s happening in your situation, what kind of support you’re looking for, and whether I’m the right fit. There’s no pressure—just an open, compassionate exchange to see how I may best serve you and your loved one.